There is SO MUCH pressure. It's everywhere, tacked on to every obligation or expectation we feel compelled to meet. 

We feel the need to:

• Have the right friends
• Date the right people
• Have the right look
• Be or look the right age
• Participate in the right activities
• Shop in and eat at the right places
• Say, think and know the right things
• Attend the right school(s)
• Get the right job 

…and the list goes on.